I’m going to be brutally honest, getting scammed for anything absolutely sucks! If you’ve been scammed then you know how it feels. It makes you feel like you’ve been taken advantage of and it really hurts. Since I’ve been involved in joining dating sites, I’ve been scammed a ton of times. In fact, I made it my goal to figure out what sites were scams and what weren’t. I knew taking this approach was going to lead to being exposed to bad sites. I did not give a fuck! I felt like it was my calling to take the hit and ultimately expose all the dating scam sites I could. Enough of me crying over getting scammed, let me share with you how I went through the process of detecting these scams and labeled each as a scam if warranted. Keep reading and I’m going to give you the skinny on what constitutes a scam, what I looked for and what you should be looking for too before joining a dating site.
What Constitutes An Internet Dating Scam?
Well, this is pretty simple to answer…
An online dating scam can be any type of situation that costs you money wherein you get nothing in return. For example, let’s say you join a dating site that states there are hundreds of thousands of members in your local area and you only see 5 people. That my friend is a scam. Another example would be if a site charges you to message someone but the person on the other end of that message doesn’t exist and it’s a bot of some sort. That’s a scam too. Another example of a scam is if you join a dating site hoping to connect with a local girl but she turns out to be an escort that wants money. That’s a scam as well. There are many different types of scams that can occur and these are just a few of them. However, it’s not important that I explain what I consider to be a scam. It’s more important that I tell you what I’ve taken into consideration when ruling certain websites as scams or legit. Here’s a quick rundown of everything that I focus on.
Here’s a quick rundown of some important site characteristics that I consider when determining if a site is a scam or not.
Site Claims
I pay very close attention to exactly what each site that I’m reviewing claims before joining. I’m very particular when it comes to this and take notes on the number of members claimed, the quickness in getting laid, the price and all that. I am so diligent that I literally take notes on each site so that I can reference it all once I become a member to see if they are telling the truth. One thing I can’t stand is when a dating company states something about their service and it turns out to be completely false.
The Girls
I pay close attention to the girls on the tour and inside the actual dating site. If I find a site that has 100% hot girls that look like supermodels then it’s a red flag. There’s no way that all members of a real dating site are hot. It’s humanly impossible given the odds. I also look to see if I’ve seen girls on other dating sites and even more importantly, if I’ve seen their images on other sites. That for me is another giant red flag.
The Messages
You guessed it, the messages matter here and if I’m getting messages from girls without even finishing my dating profile then that’s a huge red flag for me. I pay close attention on the style of the messages as well. If they seem too generic then I know something doesn’t sound right. Or if I’m getting the same messages from someone new but the same message is being sent. That’s a bad sign and I make note of that in my review.
The Terms
Some dating sites think they can legally cover their asses by writing in their terms and conditions that they create fake profiles or pay girls to be online to chat with. Well, that’s absolutely unacceptable to me. I mean, I am okay with a couple of girls being hired to chat but some sites literally have 100% paid girls to chat with you. They have fake dating profiles and you’ll never get laid on them. I have a huge problem with sites like these.
In summary, I look at a number of different factors when joining hookup sites and I do my best to share the scams with you. In this section of the site, I’ll be exposing as many scams as I can so that you don’t join the sites. Don’t worry, I’ll also be sharing my favorite sites to join so you can get laid. I would never steer you wrong, you know that!
If you want to avoid all the scams and just get to the good sites then I can help you in that department. Here’s a list of sites that I 100% vouch for as being legit good dating sites if you want to hook up. I’ve over shared five of my favorite with you here but that should be enough to get things going for you!
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