The site looks really cool and it also has lots of different options to choose from. Most sites have lots of different tabs and buttons, which can really confuse someone who is not used to a big flashy website. I personally liked the layout of the website because that is what attracted me to the site originally.
My girlfriend and I were looking to add some spice into our relationship. We have been together for a really long time and were hoping to find another woman or perhaps a couple to play with. Another thing we were really worried about was finding people online that were not the people in their photographs or they were playing games and unserious about connecting with another couple. So, my girlfriend was more hesitant than I was in the beginning.
In the beginning we started out with just a simple photograph of the two of us together. We realize that the more pictures you had, the more of a response you will get from people. We had quite a few responses from couples that were experienced with swinging and were hoping to connect with newbies on the site. The only thing I can say about all of the attention we got, is that you can really tell when someone new is on the site because it seems as though all of the experienced swinger couples instantly flock to them. We had quite a few couples that were hoping to meet as soon as possible and we also had a few single girls that were looking to experiment sexually more than anything.
This was the fun part that my girlfriend and I enjoyed doing as a couple. The one thing we had was a nice selection of women to choose from. There were plenty of ladies in our area, and couples as well. Ideally we were hoping to find at least a couple and one girl to meet, but because there were so many people interested in meeting us because we were very “open-minded” we ended up getting several different invitations to different activities.
After scanning through all of the different e-mails and responses we got, we decided that we would narrow our search down to 20 different dates. Yes, we had that many responses from people that seemed as though they were very interested in us and wanted to at least go out and have a drink. My girlfriend was a bit nervous about the entire experience of meeting someone face to face, but I am the braver one in the relationship and can get down with almost any situation.
The messaging process was fairly normal in my opinion. It didn’t seem anything drastic or harsh, and was relatively easy because all that was involves was trying to find a date and time to meet all of the people. We send out quite a few e-mails to meet people and we didn’t expect that everyone would want to meet us, so our dinner plate was quite full for the next few months. My girlfriend and I both work so that was really the only problem, trying to fit in the scheduling to match other people’s schedules. A few people wanted to meet late at night without doing any type of meet and greet, it was more or less a booty call. My girlfriend really wasn’t feeling that type of setting because she wanted to get to know a couple or person before she just jumps in bed with them. We also got to be really good e-mail pen pals with couples that we were not going to meet for at least a week because we were so busy. Everyone seemed to be extremely genuine and we had quite a few interests besides bedroom activities, so that was cool because in the future we had thought it would be fun to go on a casual vacation with another couple.
Obviously because my girlfriend and I are both really safe and we are always concerned about her safety we do take the time to call all of our people that wanted dates with us. Everyone was really encouraging and happy to meet us, and they also said that meeting before heading straight to the bedroom was actually preferred. The single girls seem to be a little bit more aggressive as far as wanting to be with my girlfriend, but I think that is because my girlfriend is extremely attractive and they wanted to get her into bed as quickly as possible. All of the couples we spoke to on the phone were nice, polite, and totally respectful of boundaries and any type of setting that might make anyone uncomfortable.
THE FIRST MEET UP
This was way more than we bargained for, because we signed up and only a few days later we were getting ready to meet one of the girls. She was extremely hot and she was really into meeting my girlfriend more than me. I am a guy, so like I am really going to say no to watch two hot chicks fuck. She was really nice and I could tell instantly that she wanted to be with my girlfriend. I decided to let everything go with the flow, because if anything I would at least get to watch if I did not get to participate in the action.
This site is amazing for meeting people that are actually ready to have adult fun, and not play games.
A very nice selection of people to meet.
I got to watch my girlfriend have sex with a smoking hot chick.
If you are not into lots of e-mails from people that obviously want to fuck, then it can be overwhelming. Luckily, we are very horny couple.
From the site we ended up meeting two couples and three single girls that we play with on a regular basis now. There is no drama, and we all have a good time when we connect. I will stay on the site because you never know what kind of fun action you can find in the future.