Okay, so sometimes I write about things that I recommend you do and other times I feel it’s more important to just be absolutely blunt about things and tell you what to not do. If you’re serious about trying to hook up with someone or get laid using many of the online dating sites, then you need to stop doing the following things on the sites or apps you use immediately!
Things To Stop Doing (Forever) When Using Online Dating Sites And Apps
Listen to me loud and clear, stop doing each and every one of these things if you’re dating online. Read the list and know it like the back of your hand. Don’t screw things up either because it might result in not getting lucky, ever!
Not Filling Out Your About Me or Bio Section
If I’ve told you once, I’ve told you a million times, fill out your damn “About Me” section on your dating profile. If you’re one of these people that leave it blank or incomplete then you are cutting yourself short. Not filling out these sections basically gives you no chance in getting laid when up against those that have completed their profiles.
Posting Group Pictures
For gosh sakes, stop posting group pictures of you and your friends or ex’s on your dating profile. It draws attention away from you and instantly makes people think about banging your friend, not you. Even worse, if you’re using this group photo as your profile picture then you need to clean up your act and get a solid photo going! There are even dating sites out there like Blume that make users take selfies!
Contacting People Multiple Times That Don’t Respond
If someone doesn’t reply to your message you only have two options. None of which are to continue to send multiple messages to those that don’t respond. Either move on to someone else or wait until they reply. Don’t be a creepy clinger. If you decide to do so I promise you’re not getting laid.
Sending One Word Chats or Messages
No one wants to get a typical “Hi” or “Yo” in their dating inbox. It looks shady and doesn’t work at all. If anything, it’s an inbox filler that results in a fast delete and block. Use your head and construct a single sentence instead of looking like an idiot sending a one-word message.
Asking For Sex Right Away
Okay, we all want to get laid. It’s no surprise. But you’ve got to stop asking for sex right away. It doesn’t work that way and it’s bound to keep you alone for another night. Instead, work your way up to that by talking to a potential fuck buddy in a few conversations before you bring up having sex with them. You can always ease into it asking them to snap text with you if you’re horny and want to get off. But don’t ask for them to fuck you immediately. Yes, this can even apply to adult hookup sites.
So, if you stop doing these things you’re going to increase your chances of getting lucky with someone. I promise! Now go out there and fix your mistakes now or you’ll be sorry.